Friday, October 31, 2008

A note on blog comments

A note on comments:

First of all, thanks for all the comments from readers. Most comments I’ve published, and I try to answer them as often and as best I can. So keep up the good work, faithful readers!

Here is one comment on my last post which I wanted to address for everyone:

“It's funny, sometimes reading this I almost forget your host family is Muslim. And then I read this discussion and remember that England/America/Christendom is one side and they are on the other. And again, I'm impressed at your being in a place so foreign and coping with it.”

I find it revealing that the quote links countries (England and America) often associated predominately with terms like "the West" and with "Christendom". Certainly, American religion has become so entangled with American culture (for further reading I recommend Alan Wolfe’s The Transformation of American Religion) with concepts of Christendom in the earthly sense, that we often, at least in our thinking, use America and Christendom interchangeably and pit this category against "the East", "Arabs" or "Muslims". We had better be careful about forming "us versus them" mentalities. I'm seeing more and more that when we Americans create this sort of dichotomy, even quite innocently, Muslims take the cue and assume that the two categories (America and Christendom) are inherently linked, not just as historically constructed, linked categories, but connected at the deepest level, and hence adopt the same sort "clash of civilizations" thinking of which we are guilty and which fuels Islamic fundamentalism. While many ideas and practices in American culture may be very different from those in Muslim societies, it has been and continues to be American foreign policy which contributes most to the perceived "clash". Let's not confuse cultural values with more tangible political policies in our understanding of "us and them".

The last thing I want to do in my blog entries is to "other" my host family, that is to make them seem inherently different from myself and my readers. I’m glad to hear that some readers “forget” that my host family is Muslim while reading about them, at least in the sense that I’m not creating “an other”. But I never forget that they are Muslim – I’m confronted with it everyday; the only way “to cope” is to seek to understand. That doesn’t mean that I’ll embrace everything about my host culture and “go native”, but that I’ll observe, analyze, and interpret what I encounter as best as I can as a novice anthropologist. And as I conduct my field work over the next five weeks, as a Christian (and not just a cultural Christian), I’ll always be aware of the moral dimension in my work.

Please feel free to continue to comment and question – this sort of interaction is really helpful to us all. I’d like to think that my blog, at times more thoughtful than others, is one small way of not just sharing my experiences with general readers, but of helping to improve intercultural dialogue between “East and West”.

4 comments:

Christian said...

That's such an important point. Thanks for reminding us.

Danbee Kim said...

Interesting post, Diana. Now that I think back, I am not sure if I've ever forgotten that your host family is Muslim. I think I always kept it there in the back of my mind. It's always hard to remember that just one person NEVER signifies the whole religion; I find myself doing that after I meet one Hindu, one Buddhist, or one Muslim. And it's probably the other way around, too. It's probably stressful for you to present a good front to your Muslim family because otherwise they might compound an assumption of all Westerners or Christians based on your actions...I know that sometimes, I feel like that here in America with my Korean heritage, and oddly enough, I felt like that in Korea when I was there last summer. Whenever people found out that I was from America, I felt them sizing me up, based on my appearance, the way I carried myself, my ability to speak Korean (this especially), and my manners and customs. Anyway, enough about me ^^ I hope that you have the best of time with your remaining month(s?) there in Jordan, and I hope that your time spent there was a great eye-opener for you ^^ MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!

Unknown said...

The last thing I wanted to do was to upset you or be in any way disrespectful of your host family. I would view the conflict between Christianity and Islam as a military reality that has been going on almost since Islam began. And, yes, one that began far before America, or even England as we know it, existed. I would also say that the main cause of this conflict, at least in the pre-modern world, was shared borders, and so was decidely geographical.

At the risk of sounding too terribly like a politician or pundit, I'm sorry if that comment bothered you. I understand that your blog is about your experiences in Jordan.

D.P. Hatchett said...

etnabend,

Neither of which you did (upset me personally or be disrespectful of the host family). I just found the comment an opportunity for opening up a discussion - one which I had encountered with a few friends and family members and occasionally in an academic setting before I came to Jordan. The questions raised in the response to your earlier comment were to help myself and any readers who are interested to think more critically about the terms we use and the assumptions behind them when we discuss such issues.